Pay attention to the positive thinking and vibes. Never get carried away by the negative thoughts coming your way as they will only take your time and will make you restless. Pay attention only to the things you want to say YES for and leave the rest of the things there and then.
Never say YES when you want to say NO. Only listen to your soul and the love you have for the values in your life. Let your love decide things for you. Sooner or later, love will possess your being, and there will be no place left for hate.