Romantic Love is of three categories:
1. Totally selfish. That is you want God to be with you to satisfy your desires of romance. Here the word sensuality describes it very well. Still the difference is you”re dependant on God and not on any other material person for your amorous quest. Because you”re thinking of Divine God, your mind gets purified and eventually you reach the divine realm and keep on receiving infinite sexual pleasure forever. But this is not the kind of Love that any saint prescribes. The reason is through this process you limit yourself to just the beginning of ladder of spiritual romantic happiness.
2. Business Love. : This is sort of love that is there between two persons who think of their happiness as well of their beloved. In next posting I”ll narrate a short story to bring out the difference. With this type of thinking too you don’t reach ultimate hierarchy of romantic happiness.
3. Selfless Love: This type of love is that love in which even desire for romance is for making your beloved happy. For satisfaction of Lord. You think that God will derive happiness through relationship with you. Here the word sensual is not applicable. The reason being you want to have relationship with God for His happiness and not for your amorous quest.