God is another name of reservoir of unlimited exhilaration. To be more precise, God is unlimited and never-ending happiness. It is usually defined as the power that creates (releases) the universe, supports the universe and absorbs the universe in the end. How such powers can be attributed to happiness please click on founder’s personal home page and read the permanent solution.
I think the claim that universe in without fear and judgment is not very correct. Many people do live under fear. And of course there are so many judgments passed on to us by God! Regarding your look, position, nation etc. As far your definition of love, one should not mix up happiness, exhilaration with love. And above all supernatural love has capacity to even mesmerize God. That love relieves you through all kinds of sufferings, tensions etc for once and all.