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TALAQ IN QURAN SHARIFF.

I often used to wonder , how easy is for Muslim husbands to break at any time the pious relationship of marriage as right from my childhood I have heard & seen in movies , plays , TV serials etc that if a Muslim husband says TALAQ thrice , the couple gets immediately divorced. Thus just in a blink of eye a woman no longer remains wife of her husband . This made me always feel that the relationship between Muslim couples is very weak as it is easily broken by a word TALAQ . However in recent past my computer technician , Mr. Ahmed Khan changed my conceptions about Talaq by explaining to me the actual process of Talaq which is mentioned in Quran Shariff


According to Quran , the process of Talaak takes months & the husband does not say TALAQ THRICE AT A TIME. So if the couple is finding difficulties in adjusting with each other , the husband will say Talaq once & then he will wait for one month . If the couple resolves their differences then they will go ahead with their relationship other wise the husband will say TALAQ for the second time . After saying Talaq for the second time , the husband has to wait for one more month. Again if the couple copes up with each others expectations then they will continue with their relation or else the Husband will say TALAQ for the third time & the couple will then finally gets separated.

Thus is we go by Quran Shariff , Talaq is not simple , it takes months however many people have changed the rule of Talaq according to their own convenience .Quran Sharif also mentions that if a husband give divorce to his wife & then wants to re marry his wife then the wife has to marry first another man then she should have relationship with that man & then after giving divorce to that man she can again marry her first huband . Unfortunately Muslims have accepted this rule as it is .

Through this post I just want to convey that the actual process of Talaq in Quran Sharif is differnt from what we see & hear in movies , serials etc. Many people have modified the rule of Talaq according to their convenience . It is not jsut in Islaam but in almost all religions that people do not follow the principles mentioned in the religious scriptures & therefore the religion loses its purity.


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7 Responses

  1. madhu_vamsi says:

    Hi moksha, When a couple wants to rejoin then it is sucking rule in muslim community. When a couple wants divorce then in Hindu law it will take atleast 2 years or more time to get divorce. In muslims it is easiest way to get divorce, 3 months is also a short time.

  2. jmalhotra says:

    jmalhotra

    but most of the followers of the religion follow the easy way..where as the truth and the sentity of the relationship is not taken care of …but I believe that things should go in a systematic and humanistic way…approach should be purely religious than emotional

  3. Service_to_all says:

    Hello,

    I dont know if you are aware of an incident which took place in WB about a year back, when a husband inadvertently in his sleep voiced thrice the word Talaq. The wife who heard this had narrated this to one of her close confidante. This resulted in the local mullah getting to know of the incident, and immediately approached the two to separate. The husband was repentant and stated that he did not want to seperate from his wife. But the mullah was adamant and said that if he wanted to live with his wife, the wife will have to get married with someone else, spend a night, get a talaq and then remarry.

    Please check this url for the authenticity of my comment.

    http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/1465187.cms

    Regards,
    SERVICE TO ALL

  4. MOKSHA says:

    YES I KNOW ABOUT IT…..BUT THE FACT IS THAT IN EVERY RELIGION THERE ARE ONLY HANDFUL OF PEOPLE WHO GO BY WHAT IS WRITEN IN THE RELIGIOUS BOOKS….MOST OF US HAVE MODIFIED RELIGIOUS PRINCIPLES ACCRDING TO THE CONVINIENCE. MULLAHS RELESE ACTS ON THEIR OWN THEY TAKE MONEY & RELEASE THE ACT…FEW YEARS BACK ONE MULLAH RELEASED A LAW THAT MUSLIM WOMEN CANNOT WATCH TV & ALSO CANNOT SLEEP ON BED THEY SHOULD SLEEP ON GROUND.

    IT IS NOT WITH MUSLIMS , I HAVE JAINS EATING NON VEG…..NOW WE ALL KNOW THAT NON-VEG & DRINKS ARE NOT ALLOWED IN JAINISM BUT STILL SOME JAINS EAT & DRINK.

  5. sajeevss says:

    Hi Moksha,

    It is certainly new to me that it takes three months for the three times, the option of resolving the relationship is just an excuse.Most Muslim men who can simoply say Talaq would already have more than one wife, and after saying Talaq the 1st time he will live with another wife….than where are the chances of rebuilding their relationship………

  6. Ruby says:

    Thank you for your information on talaq, I think your keyboards “e” key is not working because for the word “then”, it has been typed as “than” in all areas. Take care. Jesus loves U

  7. MOKSHA says:

    IT IS JUST A RULE IN QURAN SHARIF THAT THE HUSBAND HAS TO WAIT FOR ONE MONTH AFTER SAYING TALAQ FOR THE FIRST TIME…..NOW IF HE DOES NOT WANT TO LIVE WITH HIS WIFE THEN ALSO HE HAS TO WAIT…….THIS IS WHAT IS THERE IN QURAN SHARIF. THEIR IS ALWAYS A POSSIBILITY THAT THE HUSBAND OR WIFE CHANGE THEIR MIND . DECISIONS TAKEN IN HURRY ARE MOSTLY WRONG.

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